The day after
their meeting with the Sand Man, Taylor and Wichard went to the Beverly Hills
office of Randall Emmett, who has produced more than 50 feature films, and
discussed the two reality TV projects on which they're collaborating. The
shows--one a sports-lifestyle program with a twist, the other involving the
Dolphins' cheerleaders--were conceived during a February meeting in Miami
self-described Dolphins fanatic, Emmett showed up to that first sit-down with
some trepidation. "I'd had courtesy meetings with athletes, and it was like
pulling my nails out," Emmett says. "But Jason is a businessman, and he
had a very specific vision and he was able to articulate that vision. It'd be
very easy for me to put him in a movie. But this is far more interesting, and
it's a long-term relationship. Mark Wahlberg is a good friend--a rapper who
became a great actor and now produces one of the hottest TV shows in town
[Entourage]--and Jason's drive is similar."
sports-lifestyle show was bought by Fox. Taylor was instrumental in convincing
Emmett that it would be easy to lure athletes into an unsuspecting comfort
zone. "All athletes love to talk about their houses, their cars, their
money, how they 'make it rain,' " he explains. "Hell, look at me--when
[ MTV's] Cribs called, I signed right up. If you give athletes a platform to
brag, and then you do your homework [on how to set them up for embarrassment],
you've got your hook."
Yet as much as
Taylor, in this instance, is guilty of stereotyping his fellow pros, he
bristles when others' expectations of how an athlete should act are used
against him. Some fans have questioned his friendship with Brady, an AFC East
rival, to which Taylor scoffs, " Dolphins fans say, 'He's got too much
respect for Tom.' I love Tom Brady, but I'd sack my own mother on
third-and-eight." He's also sick of hearing whispers that with all his
outside interests, his commitment to football is compromised. "People want
you to be totally focused on football," he says, "but if you don't
remove yourself at times, it will drive you nuts, and you'll become less
efficient." And don't get Taylor started on the notion some have that his
unabashed ambition makes him something of a sellout to his roots. (He grew up
in a largely underprivileged neighborhood.) "What is 'keeping it
real'?" he asks. "Keeping it real what? Real stupid? Real poor? Real
uneducated? The world is constantly changing, and you've got to evolve with
Taylor is still
evolving on and off the field. "Nothing's ever good enough for me," he
says. "I have a hard time basking in the moment because there's this
constant pursuit of perfection, and that's a problem sometimes. But I'm trying
to get better. I want to be a better communicator, a better listener. My wife
wants to talk about details all the time; she'll tell these drawn-out stories,
but I just want her to get to the point and move on. And I need to work on
that. That's the kind of guy I am--I always feel like there's something else I
have to work on. I want to be a better father, a better husband."
This is as far as
Taylor will go in discussing his marital discord: "Obviously, s--- becomes
public; the more fame you have, the more public it becomes, which doesn't help.
I got my cage rattled. You work at it." Jason and Katina both say he has
modified his lifestyle, giving up nights out with the boys (though he still
hosts semiregular cigar-and-poker nights at the couple's home in Weston).
"He's changing, and he wants to," says Katina. "Everybody's a work
in progress, but he's made his family a priority. He's a great husband, a great
father. We're in a very good place, thank God for that. Because when I think
about where we were a year ago. . . . "
That was when
Jason, in that strained phone conversation last summer, mentioned retirement to
Katina. That discussion remained private until now, but last Dec. 31, just
after the Dolphins' season-ending loss to the Colts, Taylor brought up the
subject publicly, telling reporters, "Yes, I will have to think about it.
There are no guarantees." He backed off a few days later--"I just
wanted to see if anybody cared about me," he jokes--and now says that
"barring something drastic, I'm here to play out my contract," which
lasts through the 2009 season.
Sitting in a chic
restaurant at the Peninsula Hotel in Beverly Hills, Katina barely glances at
her menu. "I think I'll have the rib eye," she announces, sending her
husband into laughter because a half-hour earlier, at a diner on Melrose
Avenue, Katina had enjoyed a vanilla milk shake and fries. "I'm still
hungry," she says, shrugging. "Sometimes I eat like this, but I don't
really put on weight when I do."
Wearing a casual
top with spaghetti straps, Katina says she feels chilly, and the waiter offers
to bring her a shawl. Moments later the Taylors get into a debate over the Bush
Administration's foreign policy, with Jason playing the role of James Carville
to Katina's Mary Matalin. Yet even as they argue, they hold hands under the
table. If the Sand Man could see this, he would smile and package it as a
magical matrimonial moment, perhaps with Tim and Faith in the background
singing It's Your Love.
And if you asked
me why I changed